Wendy-Ann Smith, Psychologist, Coach, Psychologist, Trainer and Facilitator, Author of Positive Coaching Psychology in the Workplace
Fatima Hussain, Psychologist and Senior Research Analyst, uExcelerate
The challenges of Covid have highlighted the need for leaders to engage their teams differently, while remaining on course towards team and organizational objectives. The shift has required the Leader to acknowledge and engage the Whole Person, not just the task related person. Empathy, Compassion and Mindset are key in creating and engaging workplace relationships while remaining decisive when the situation requires. Wendy-Ann Smith, Coach, Psychologist, Trainer and Facilitator tells us more about compassion for the agile leader.
Wendy-Ann Smith tells us about the challenges of leadership, the definition of compassion, why leaders hesitate to show compassion and the kinds of conversations/practices leaders need to have in order to show more compassion.
The Main Challenges Leaders Face
The four challenges for a leader include collaboration, control, creativity and competitiveness. Leaders, who are often decision makers, have to work across different spaces and with the onset of the Pandemic these leaders found themselves struggling with the same problems as their team mates. They were stuck at home and had to manage their work life and home life and many found this to be very constricting.
Leaders developed a greater awareness around the needs of their teammates from a humane perspective rather than just a task perspective.
They had to learn how to marry their team’s objectives with their own objectives and still meet the company’s goals. There was a need to create stronger relationships. The way to strengthen these relationships is by increasing leaders’ emotional intelligence, empathy, and the way they think about things – become more flexible or agile both emotionally and cognitively.
Definition of Compassion:
Compassion means supporting everyone in the workplace, including those who are struggling but also those who are doing well. Fundamental to that, is building good relationships with those people and recognising what their needs are.
The thing that makes compassion different is that action is taken on those needs and finding a way to meet those needs.
What makes compassion difficult to demonstrate in the Workplace?
Compassionate leadership during disruption or crises needs to be sustained and maintained over time and requires the leader to be vulnerable. Vulnerability and humane leadership allows connections to grow stronger and will help leaders see their teams as the humans that they are and not just task related robots.
Humanity needs to come front and center in business decisions and when companies can marry humanity and business objectives they will find much stronger outcomes.
What should compassion look like for a leader?
We must look inward and practice self compassion. The leaders need to put themselves in their teams’ shoes, which is something they were forced to do during the pandemic, but it should become something leaders actively strive for in everyday situations.
How can we be compassionate with other people if we are not compassionate with ourselves?
The Role of Compassion in the Great Resignation
Compassion plays a part through all levels of the Great Resignation. People are seeking more meaning along with more income in their job roles. People want to enjoy what they are doing. People do not have tolerance for rude, authoritative leaders anymore.
How can Leaders build Compassion in their Workplace?
We need to look at compassion across the whole system. Leaders can practice compassion through the following ways:
- Start by being compassionate towards ourselves. Even leaders make mistakes. Even decision-makers can make incorrect decisions.
- Imbibing a culture of learning rather than blame.
- Taking time to check in with yourself and your team.
- Celebrate the successes. Build the relationships and recognise everyone for their contributions.
- Keep an inquiring mind, find out what peoples’ needs are.
- Recognise a need, appreciate the need, empathize with the need and take action on the need.
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Wendy-Ann is the lead editor of Positive Psychology Coaching in the Workplace (2021) and The Ethical Coaches’ Handbook: A Guide to Developing Ethical Maturity in Practice (forthcoming). She holds virtual groups for coaches who wish to nourish themselves and their coaching with the understanding and application of positive and coaching psychology. Wendy-Ann regularly coaches a small number of one-to-one clients. She creates and delivers lectures, training and coaching at several universities in France and internationally. Her inte crest is in enhancing coaches’ development and practice with positive psychology, coaching psychology and ethics in practice.
Check out Wendy-Ann’s book, Positive Psychology Coaching in the Workplace by clicking on it below.